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Robert Murray Obituary

Robert E. Murray, age 64, of Joliet, formerly of Countryside, a longtime Music Teacher at LTHS and Member of School Board District #105. Beloved husband of Kathy R.(nee Manter); devoted father of Dr. Robert W. (Dr. Mary), Kristin and Karilyn Murray; dear brother of Dr. Kenneth T. (Dr. Barb) Murray; fond nephew of Bonnie (the late Dale) Hudkins and Jackie (the late Don) Thomas. A Memorial Service will be held on Thursday, December 29, 2011 at 6pm in the Sanctuary of the First United Methodist Church of LaGrange, 100 W. Cossitt Ave. Interment private. In lieu of flowers, donations to Heifer International, Au Sable Grove Presbyterian Church in Yorkville, IL or the First United Methodist Church of LaGrange. Hallowell & James Funeral Home in Countryside is assisting the family. Service Info: (708) 352-6500

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Published by Central Cook Suburban Life on Dec. 24, 2011.

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Joel Wiseheart

December 5, 2020

Mr. Murray - the original jazz cat! Played ‘bone for him from ’81 – ’85 in marching band / concert band / NC jazz band / SC jazz band / pep band. He kept me so busy I couldn’t keep all my band folders straight! He taught me to play. He taught me to improvise. He gave me my first taste of understanding recording studios in ’84 jazz band. He gave me such a love for music that I was 14 – 17 years old then, I’m 53 now and still very musically active. I was thinking about my favorite teachers from high school, thought of him, and was very much saddened to find out just now that he’s gone on to lay down some blues in heaven. He lives on though, in the influence he gave to us, his students; and when we pass on the same passion for music to the next generation of musicians, he lives on forever!

Mary Nodulman

January 14, 2012

A great friend, a great Scout, and the man who meant the most to my son through a difficult time of life. Thanks, Bob, for my musician.

January 4, 2012

Kathy and family,
Through the years of band and sometimes at girl scout camp, Bob was always a wonderful teacher to our children. I know Joe, Chris and Erica all have wonderful memories from their time in the LTHS band. Our sympathy and prayers are with you. Joe and Diane Emry

Tara Ross-Lane

January 2, 2012

So sorry for your loss. Mr. Murry was my guitar teacher and My brother Will Ross's band teacher. My brother had great musical talent. I did not. Mr. Murry taught a completely tone deaf gal to play the guitar. He was an amazing and talented teacher, who had the patience of a saint.

Ginger Mercer

January 2, 2012

Kathy,
I was so sorry to hear that Bob had died. There is an empty spot in the world now. I have so many fond & funny memories of Bob and your family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Glenda Ford

December 31, 2011

My condolences to the Murray family. May the God of comfort be with each of you during this difficult time. Isiah 61:1,2

Rob Berry

December 31, 2011

Bob Murray will always be one of the most important mentors in my life. He encouraged me to follow my bliss, to pursue my desired path in the 'risky' world of the arts, because he believed in me and knew that I could do it. An encouraging word from a thoughtful and respected teacher can launch a career. Thanks Bob.

Lisa Radetski

December 30, 2011

Kathy, I was so sad to hear about Bob's passing. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. My mom would like to be in touch with you, too. I'll send her here. I miss all of you. It's been so long and I owe you and Bob so much. I am so sorry for your loss and that I was unable to come to the service last night.

Mike Walton

December 29, 2011

I am honored to be able to say that I was a student of Mr. Murray. He gave me an understanding and love for music and opened doors for me to continue on with music as my life's work.

God bless Mr. Murray and his family.

"Lead Trumpet" by Robert Murray

Joe Jarosz

December 29, 2011

You will be missed Mr. Murray. I'm sorry I cannot make the service but know that Bob and his family are in my thoughts and prayers. A huge part of my high school years and beyond. He pushed me to be a better musician and person. You will be missed greatly!

Gary Kriz

December 29, 2011

Bob Murray was such an influence in my life. I have so many great memories of him - I looked up to him during my high school years, and beyond..his guidance was honest and invaluable. I know he will be missed by anyone who knew him. My thoughts and prayers to Kathy and the rest of the family.

Marilyn Sala

December 28, 2011

I will always remember Bob's advice on camping (and we all know I needed it.) I'm sorry I won't be at the memorial to hear all the great ways he is remembered.

Paul Kubiak

December 28, 2011

What a wonderful teacher of music he was! I will always remember playing in the great LTHS Jazz Bands - great because of Bob Murray's effort and grace as a teacher. My sincerest condolences to all his family. I will miss you Mr Murray. God bless.

Kimberly Melia

December 28, 2011

I am so sorry to hear the loss of Mr. Murray. My prayers and thoughts go out to the Murray family. He was an extraordinary man who inspired me to have a tremendous love for music. My LT experiences would not have been the same without him.

Suzi White

December 27, 2011

I remember Uncle Bob, an Aunt Kathy ,taking us across the street from there farm house in Green Castle, to a pig farm which I believe was Cindy an Susans parents farm, an uncle Bob, telling me, an dee dee, that it was ok to go in the fence to pet them.Next thing we new it was like a herd of them chasing us, an Uncle Bob, was laughing so hard that he barely got us out off ther in time.I also remember when one of the pigs had babies, an he came an got us first to hold them.And I'm especially great full that I got to spend time with uncle Bob, at the camp ground this fall.I love You Uncle Bob, an I will miss you love Suzi White

Peter Ferro

December 27, 2011

One of my favorite high school teachers. Hope you are getting the band together up in Heaven.

December 26, 2011

So sorry for the loss of Mr.Murray. My favorite teacher from school by far, he helped me and so many others appreciate music to a higher level from our time in his band. He truly touched people's lives. Thanks Mr. Murray.
Mike Holloway, '00

December 25, 2011

I was sad to hear of his passing. Mr. Murray made band a lot of fun for me during high school ('83-'87). He will be missed.

Judy Bloecks

December 25, 2011

With deepest sympathy.
I went to school with Bob jr. and I also played the clarinet in the band. LT alum class of '88.

Jeff Molter

December 25, 2011

The Molter family of Lafayette IN would like to honor the life of Bob Murray. Richard, his music teacher, always was proud of Bob as a great trumpet player - and then even more as a music teacher. What a great legacy for the many kids who are better people because of their joy of music and their dedicated teachers like Bob Murray and our father. Life continues on - but what great memories. God bless Bob Murray.

Leslie Klanyac Siciliano

December 25, 2011

To the Murray family, I am so sorry for your loss. I fondly remember Mr. Murray from LTHS band. You are in my prayers.

December 24, 2011

Rest in Pease Mr. Murray. You were a big part of my Highschool years. You will be missed.
Steve Norbut

nancy bender

December 24, 2011

all 3 of my boys, john, michael, and paul had classes with mr. murray. they all enjoyed him very much. i had the opportunity to talk to him on several occasions, and he always made me laugh. he will be greatly missed. may he rest in peace.

Jackie Thomas

December 24, 2011

What a great picture Kathy.....he was a good son, loving husband and a great father.....he will be missed by all who knew him and he touched many lives. I always remember the picture of him and Dave at our wedding....cute little guys....and I know the HOTTEST day of June 1952. I have lots of fond memories of Bob and especially enjoyed the time we came to your house and you took us to so many interesting places in and around Chicago. I will be with you in spirit on your memorial day. Love and blessings. Jackie

Donna Boritz

December 24, 2011

God Bless you all ,Im so sorry for your huge loss,,

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