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Melissa Butsko Obituary

BUTSKO Melissa Ann Butsko, 33, of Columbus, passed away unexpected at her residence on October 23, 2009. Born on February 14, 1976 to John and the late Denise (Smalley) Butsko in Columbus, Oh. Melissa graduated from Licking Heights, Penn State with a Bachelors Degree and Phoenix University with a Masters Degree. Survived by father, John (Judy) Butsko; brother, Brian (Angie) Butsko; niece, Hailey Butsko; nephews, Stephen and Ashton Butsko; fiance, Brad Dade; grandparents, John and Audrey Butsko; mother-in-law, Carolyn Brazil. Preceded in death by mother Denise (Smalley) Butsko, grandparents Marion and Avonel Smalley. Friends may call at KAUBER-SAMMONS FUNERAL HOME, Pataskala on Tuesday, October 27, 2009 from 5-8 p.m. Funeral service on Wednesday at 10 a.m. at the funeral home with Pastor Randy Hopkins officiating. Entombment to follow at Forest Lawn Memorial Gardens. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be direct to the American Cancer Society, 870 Michigan Ave., Columbus, Oh. 43215 and Make A Wish Foundation, 2545 Farmers Dr., Suite 300, Columbus, Oh. 43235. An online memorial will be located at www.kaubersammons.com.

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Published by Suburban Life Publications on Oct. 26, 2009.

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stephen butsko

January 7, 2010

Aunt sis was a awesome aunt. I just hope that where ever she is she's happy loves and miss you. Stephen Butsko Hebron,oh

Carmela Robinson

November 5, 2009

Randy, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter, I never met her but feel like I knew her because you talked about her alot. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, friends, as well as her fiance and his family.
Did you know...look at what God promises - you do have the opportunity to see her again, in flesh and blood here on earth:
Revelation 21:4: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”

John 5:28-29: "Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life, those who practiced vile things to a resurrection of judgment."

Psalm 37: 11, 29: "But the meek ones themselves will possess the earth, And they will indeed find their exquisite delight in the abundance of peace. 29 The righteous themselves will possess the earth, And they will reside forever upon it."

Much love,
Carmela Robinson

MARIA BATTLE

November 2, 2009

I KNEW MELISSA FROM LICKING HEIGHTS AND SHE WAS WONDERFULL. WE USED TO JOKE AND MAKE FACES AT EACH OTHER ALL THE TIME IN CLASS.MY HEART GOES OUT TO HER ENTIRE FAMILY.SHE WILL BE MISSED AND ALWAYS LOVED.

Tawnya Dunaway

October 28, 2009

A life cut so short...I will always cherish the many memories we shared from licking Heights from marching band to parties at missy dixon's house! So long for now my friend...

October 27, 2009

I met Melissa in the summer of 2007 while visiting Columbus to see my best friend Brad Dade. I knew Melissa long enough to know she was a very beautiful person and we became friends. My heart and prayers are with Mellisa family and Brad. God Bless.

Dennis Powell

Blaine, MN

Susan Strosnider

October 27, 2009

Melissa was a wonderful person with a kind Heart. She always knew how to make everyone smile. She will be missed.

Todd Burns

October 27, 2009

I bowled with Melissa in juniors many years ago. I will always remember her for her sense of humor and smile. I was very saddened to hear of her passing, and it makes me wish I had done more to stay in contact with such an outstanding person.

Kisha Hollins

October 27, 2009

May God offer peace to this family. I was saddened when I heard the loss of a fellow licking heights student and friend. I am praying for this family R.I.P Melissa!!!!!!!

Jessica Peltz

October 27, 2009

Although I haven't been able to talk to Melissa much anymore since our breaks have changed, I have memories of her I will always hold in my heart. I went in the lense room Thursday and I was able to talk to her for a minute. Nothing important was said, nothing even signifigant, but I thank God and I am so, so grateful just for those few words and just to see her face. If I had known it would be for the last time, I would have said something that mattered, I would have wanted to really make it count. Life is so fragile, I am broken for her loss, for the loss of her fiance Brad and her family.I want you guys to know that I am here for anything you all might need and my sorrow and sympathy goes beyond words, nothing can express it. Melissa's sarcastic humor will always be cherished, she could brighten your day with a few words. Her willingness and ability to listen to you and be there for you knew no bounds. She left us and this earth too soon, but she will live on in our hearts with the memories she gave us forever, and ever!<3<3<3<3

Loretta Hosfelt

October 26, 2009

I bowled with Melissa, and recently had a chance to talk with her on My Space. I'll never forget her

TERESA HOSFELT

October 26, 2009

I coached Melissa many years ago at Holiday Lanes. You're all in our prayers.

October 26, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss. Melissa was a good person and a good friend to many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Michael and Angel Popper (Columbus Ohio)

Ann & Howard Reeves

October 26, 2009

What a terrible loss of a loving heart, a joyous spirit, and such a beautiful person. I must say it is our loss not to have more time with her. She will long be remembered for her compassion and inspiration of what the world should be.

Andre Hector

October 26, 2009

My thoughts & prayers are with Melissa's family . I hope that time goes on . God can bring peace to your hearts

Pat Donahey

October 26, 2009

Melissa was a wonderful person,and so much fun to be around!! She was always there to help you out or just to listen and lend encouragement and honesty!!!! I will especially miss her smile every day as I walk by the Lense room at VSP. RIP Milissa and remember it's not goodbye but so long for now.

April Hosfelt

October 26, 2009

Melissa and My sister Loretta and I have been friends since we were little. She is going to be missed by many..... we love you Melissa. My Thoughts and Prayers are with your family and Brad.

Latecia Jefferson

October 26, 2009

I worked with Melissa for the past three years and she was my girl. We had so many laughs and good conversation. I will miss her so much.

To Brad and the Butsko Family, I deeply sorry for your loss. I can honestly say, because I lost my sister, (with whom I was so close), I truly feel your pain. There are not any words I can say that will change the hurt. As, I thought it would not go away. I will tell you, you do not get over it. However, you learn to cope. Just remember and cherish all the good memories of her. Let her continue to live in your hearts. May God bless each and every one of you.

Debbie Brooks-Vatter

October 26, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

John Cotton

October 26, 2009

I worked in front of Melissa for over 1 year at VSP she was a great woman to everyone. She will be greatly missed as a friend.My thoughts and prayers are with all the family and friends.

Marlene Stadler

October 26, 2009

Melissa was one of my good friends. I worked with her for the past five years and she was always there for me when know one else was. Our family will miss her dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with Brad and the Butsko Family.

Alex & Mandy Thomas

October 26, 2009

Our prayers are with you and your family during this difficult and very sad time.

October 26, 2009

I am so sorry to hear the news. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, Brian, and your family. May God bless.
Betsy & Ron TerMeer
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Mark Riffle

October 26, 2009

I'm saddened to read the news. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Mark Riffle

October 26, 2009

I'm saddened to hear the news. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ron Donohoe

October 26, 2009

Randy,Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hands of God

Our Thought and prayers are with you.

Ron Donohoe & Family

Debbie Stuller Nutt

October 26, 2009

Melissa was one of my daughters friends from high school, she was a real sweet heart, she'll be missed by all who knew and loved her. Our thoughts and prayers are with her friends and family. May God be with you all now and forever.
Rest in peace Melissa.
Debbie Stuller Nutt.

Linda Mitchell

October 26, 2009

Melissa was a friend to so many people here at VSP. She will be missed by all of us. I will miss our little chats and seeing her every day. My thoughts and prays are with you, Brad, your family, and all your friends.

Billie Jean Preston

October 26, 2009

My prayers are with you and your family.Melissa will be greatly missed.

Gray Family

October 26, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. Missy was very loved by everyone who's lives she touched. I lived across the street from the Butsko family from 3rd grade to 6th grade. Missy was the very first friend I had after we moved for the umteenth time. She was very kind hearted. We spent our summers swimming at Swim Land and playing softball mostly. She loved life and her family. She will be forever in our hearts. May her love of life give you the strength to make through each day. Peggy, Dave, Colleen & Amber

October 26, 2009

Dear Brad and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Melissa for a short time. She will miss her greatly. Dixie Wroten

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