Jack Jelsomine Obituary

My parents celebrating their 50th anniversary in 2006. As you can see their love for each other was very strong and they cared very deeply for each other.

this has been the hardest time of my life. my dad was the strongest force in my life. he was too young to die. he was still young at heart and loved to entertain us and make us laugh. he lived a simple live and was completely happy just doing anything with his family. sadly his body was failing him even tho he still looked so good and strong to me. i find peace in the fact that dad told me he was not afraid to die. i am blessed and thankful to have had the chance, along with my family, to say goodbye and that i love you and you were the best dad. he was ready. i speak for the family when i say, DAD, please know how much we miss you and the hole you have left in our lives and hearts.but we will see you again and we know you watch over us from heaven above. love forever, your daughter, cindy lou

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

To everyone who knew Jack and especially his sisters ging, peg and shirl. My condolences to all of you for the emptiness you must feel as well as me, at the loss of your brother and friend. I do want to thank each and every one who took a part in our life, and made it so much easier to bare the burden of this loss.

I have such fond memories of gathering in West Virginia with my mother and her siblings, Jack, Nancy, Ging and Shirl and all of the cousins. We would invade Nannie and Pawpaw's home for weeks. Jack was always a fun presence there and became so much like our grandfather as the years progressed. I loved seeing how much he and his sisters enjoyed each other and valued their time together. They always made a big effort for us to get to know our cousins, even though we lived far apart for most of the year. We'll miss you, Uncle Jack, Love, Paula and Beth and Joel

We were so very sorry to hear of Uncle Jack's death. We share your pain and sorrow and only hope that over time your pain will be replaced with happy memories of him. Our condolences to all who knew and love him. Love, Donna(Jack's niece), Justin and Joe

To my dad,
I would like to thank you for all you have done for me. You have always been there for me and have shaped me into the person that i am today. It is my hope that a part of you will be with me forever and i believe that you will be watching over me the rest of my life. I feel that you will still be there to listen to me when i need you. I love you dad.

I just want to express my heart felt love for all my family members that have upheld me during this difficult time in my loss of Jack. He was dearly loved by me and all of his family and friends. And we will miss him beyond compare. We will try to carry on as he would want us to do. Praying that god will give us the strength to overcome this difficult time.

Jack was a wonderful fellow. Great humor! Generous heart! He was a kind, conscientious and dependable person who was respected by everyone who had the priviledge to know him. He was very devoted to Pat and his family. I worked with him for 37 years and will remember him as an honest and good friend. He will be missed!

We lost our father and grandpappy. Mom, you lost your everything. So we will be there whenever you need us and some. You will be in our prayers. BE STRONG AND KEEP YOUR FAITH! Love you lotsss!