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Darrell Holsteen Obituary

Darrell Alan Holsteen went peacefully to be with his Lord Jesus Christ on Sunday, September 12, 2010 at the age of 83 after a long struggle with lung fibrosis. He was a longtime resident of Glen Ellyn until 2008 when he moved with his wife, Muriel, to Windsor Park Manor in Carol Stream. Darrell was born on October 26, 1926 in Yarmouth, Iowa, the son of Edward and Lulu Holsteen. He grew up on the family farm with his even siblings. After graduating from high school, he served in the United States Army which included a tour of duty in Korea. In 1947, Darrell began his educational pursuits at Wheaton College where he met his wife, Muriel Bray. They were married on August 15, 1952 and enjoyed 58 years of marriage. He earned his B.S. from Wheaton College, his M.S. from Northern Illinois University and his Ed.D. from Loyola University. Darrell spent his professional career dedicated to public education, serving as Superintendent of Glen Ellyn District 89 for 25 years and Assistant Superintendent of Business in LaGrange Park District 105 until he retired in 1988. Although Darrell left the farm, it never left him. He was an avid gardener who derived great pleasure from giving his grandchildren rides on his John Deere tractor. He had a deep personal faith in Jesus Christ that he never failed to share or express with others. He was a long time member of Wheaton Bible Church, where he served in various capacities including Sunday School teacher, Stephen Minister, ESL teacher aide, and Elder. He served on the World Relief Board and for many years o the DuPage County Prayer Breakfast Committee. He also served his local community in many other capacities and was a member of many professional organizations. Darrell is survived by his wife Muriel; sons, Dennis (Mickey), Mark (Traci) and Kevin (Becky); daughters, Marla Ursiny (Tim) and Jana Weber (Steve); 13 grandchildren, Heather Pinarci, Hilary Holsteen, Shannon Howell (Ken), Joel Holsteen, Whitney Holsteen, Ethan Holsteen, Nikki Holsteen, Zachary Ursiny, Colton Ursiny, Vance Ursiny, Britney Weber, Cody Weber and Braden Weber; three great-grandsons, Lennon Pinarci, Cayden Armentano and Nathaniel Howell. He is also survived by his siblings, Verdaine Holsteen (Bernita), Valerie Holsteen, Marveline Bailey, Verle Holsteen (Patti), Donnaline Street (Harold), Lita Joyce Holsteen Duck (Gene) and numerous nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his brothers, Dalton and Melbourne, Melbourne's wife Miriam, brother-in-law, Lloyd Bailey and brother-in-law Dale Totemeier. His eldest sibling, Faith Totemeier followed him in death on September 13, 2010. Visitation will be held on Friday, September 17, 2010 from 3-8 p.m. at Hultgren Funeral Home, 304 N. Main St. in Wheaton. A Funeral Service will be held on Saturday, September 18, 2010 at 10:30 a.m. at Wheaton Bible Church, 27W500 North Avenue, West Chicago, IL. 60185. Interment will be private at Forest Hill Cemetery in Glen Ellyn, IL. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to either Wheaton Bible Church, Missions Department, 27w500 North Avenue, West Chicago, IL 60185; or to World Relief DuPage, 1825 College Avenue, Wheaton, IL 60187. Family and friends may sign a guest book at hultgrenfh.com. For more information, please call Hultgren Funeral Home at 630-668-0027.

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Published by Central DuPage News/Leader/Post/Press on Sep. 15, 2010.

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Darrel Anderson

September 26, 2010

Muriel, I try to keep up with friends back in Wheaton by checking Hultgren's regularly. I always enjoyed my "brother Darrell" and we shared the same ideas about church, scripture and life.

Now a part of you has already gone ahead, and he will be waiting for you with open arms.

The tide recedes, but leaves behind bright seashells on the sand.
The sun goes down, but gentle warmth still lingers on the land.
The music stops, but echoes on its sweet refrains;
For every joy that passes, something beautiful remains.

Darrell left his footprints and influence on many lives and did so with a wonderful testimony to His Savior.

With our prayers,
Darrel & Arlene Anderson

Edith Lawrence

September 22, 2010

Muriel, Praying that you will feel the presence of the Comforter in a very real way throughout these days ahead.

I was unable to attend the visitation or the memorial service but understand the testimony of Darrell was gloriously expressed.

Darrell no longer has to struggle for his next breath. I too look forward to that day!

Ray Smith

September 19, 2010

Sincere condolences, Muriel, from your Wheaton classmates. We have appreciated those 'sightings' of you and Darrell off and on over the many years since graduation. DV we shall see you again on campus.

Paul Bufkin

September 18, 2010

Darrell was a rational guy. Could talk to him about scripture, or the farm or whatever and have good dialog. Will miss his friendship...until we meet again in God's glory.

June Young

September 16, 2010

I'm happy that I got to work in Distrist 89 with Mr. Holsteen as superintendent. He was an honorable man. My sympathy and prayers are with the family. June Young

The Hultgren Family and Staff

September 15, 2010

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Lisa Seward

September 14, 2010

I'm so glad my mom married into the Holsteen Herd, and I got to reap the benefits of living nearby to Uncle Darrell and Aunt Muriel for several years. How many times did they pick me up at O'Hare Airport while I came and went from Wheaton College?

I remember spending New Year's Day at their home in Glen Ellyn in 1992, a day before our first born arrived at Central DuPage Hospital.

Most importantly, I will always be grateful for their faithful support of our mission work in Africa all these years.

I wish I could attend the funeral, but am sending my other half for that function as I must stay in Michigan for the time being. I'm sending my love to Aunt Muriel and the family, and my request for a visit sometime real soon now that we're settled back in Wheaton for the year.

To God be the Glory, great things He has done!

September 14, 2010

A good man...a life well-lived.
GodSpeed to one of my oldest Holsteen cousins. You and your brother Dalton were two of my Mom's (your Aunt Nellie Dyer) favorites. She's probably rejoicing with you and Dalton, and your sister Faith now. Give them all my love.

Buzz Dyer
Corte Madera, Calif.

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