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William Gray Obituary

William J. Gray, 63, a 30-year resident of Downers Grove, passed away on November 18, 2008. He was born in Kalamazoo, Michigan. A graduate of the University of Michigan, he also received his MBA in Finance from Michigan State University. Bill was employed as a Consulting Delivery Manager for SAP/Business Objects. He served in the US Army during the Vietnam War and attained the rank of Sergeant. Activities included serving as a Boy Scout Leader, coach of the first Girl's Soccer League in Downers Grove, PTA dad, and University of Illinois Dads Association Board Member. He is survived by his wife of 36 years, Suzy, son, Todd (Lydia) Gray, daughter Sarah (Charlie) Firnsin, infant grandson, Max Firnsin, mother, Claire Gray, brothers Steve (Susan) Gray and Jack Gray, mother-in-law, Charlotte Zdravkoff, sister-in-law, Nancy Licker, niece, Jennifer (Patrick) Kovalan, nephew, James (Kerry) Gray, and his beloved dog Sarge. A private burial will be held at the Abraham Lincoln National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Save-a-Pet, 31644 N Fairfield Road, Grayslake, IL 60030.

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Published by South DuPage Reporter/Progress on Nov. 25, 2008.

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Marc Savage

December 9, 2008

As someone who has known Bill since we were squirts in junior high, as his first roommate in college at the University of Michigan, I have long admired and cared about this man. He was a buddy, a teacher, a truly funny guy. He was a man to whom charm came naturally and grace will abide always with his memory. May God bless you, Bill, for you walked this world, every day of it that I knew you, as a good and honorable man. And my, how we laughed.

Nicole and Bill Maxstadt

December 2, 2008

I only met Bill once and he was very kind. I work with his son Todd and if Todd is any reflection of his father than he must have been a great man. To the entire family, I am so sorry and my thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

John Newton

November 30, 2008

I never spent time with Bill when he did not come up with a witty quip, a funny joke, or an interesting fact. He was an excellent party guest...always the first to arrive and the last to leave...and with Bill, that was a good thing! My love and prayers go to the extended Gray family. As I am sure you knew, and are experiencing even more these last days, Bill positively touched many lives.

Larry Modine

November 27, 2008

Bill, you were a friend and buddy. I will really miss you. Thank you for the enormous time that you invested in the Boy Scout outings and events. You were there for me when I needed someone to lean on when discharged from the hospital after my accident. I will always remember the dinners we shared, the time of fellowship with our wives and friends. So many unsaid thanks. You are in my prayers. May you rest in peace.

Jolie Fredette

November 26, 2008

Suzy, and family,
Ken and I are so sorry, for your loss Suzy. My father remembered Bill playing our yard in Kalamazoo with my brothers, and David breaking his arm in their yard. If I can ever to anything let me know, Bill had a kind heart and a great smile. He will be missed by all. Love Jolie

Omar Faruqi

November 26, 2008

Bill had a charming personality. Anyone who met him liked him instantly. He was not only a great colleague but an awesome friend and more like a father figure to us (his Business Objects colleagues). He leaves behind an unfillable vaccum and will be missed greatly. May the Lord rest his soul in peace and grant us all strength to deal with this tremendous loss! Amen!

Doris Hoffman

November 26, 2008

Bill was a quiet man with a heart that was always open. I will always remember him for helping our family in our time of need. He was always there when you needed him. He was a wonderful Scout leader and helped teach my son great values. We will miss him dearly but never forget him.

Luis Mateos

November 25, 2008

Always helping others, an excellent person and manager. I will always miss you and cherish the memories. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace, my good friend.

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