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Brendan Conner Obituary

Brendan Mead Conner, 1964-2009. Brendan Conner, 45, died in his home in La Grange Park on Nov. 16, of brain cancer. Born April 13, 1964, in Evanston, Brendan attended Morgan Park High School in Chicago and graduated from the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign (BS 1985), University of Minnesota (MS 1992) and the University of Chicago (MBA 1998). Founder and president of ConnerSoft, Inc., a software consulting company, Brendan will be remembered as a talented musician; avid world and local traveler; participant in clearing Forest Preserves of buckthorn; and enthusiastic photographer. No one was safe from Brendan's camera, not even the cicadas, which he found beautiful and fascinating. Survived by his wife Mary (nee Leming), whom he greeted each morning with "Hey, love of my life"; his brothers Robbin, of NY, and Gareth, of RI; his sisters Maia, of Oak Park, IL, Gwenda, of CT, and Ariadne, of VA; his parents, Roger and Marsda Conner, of Oak Park, IL; one nephew and five nieces. Burial service will be held at a later date at St. James Episcopal Church, St. James, NY 11780. Donations in his memory may be sent to Northwestern University, Feinberg School of Medicine, Attn. Terri Dillon, Office of Development, 750 N. Lake Shore Drive, 9th Floor, Chicago IL 60611, www.cancer.northwestern.edu. Checks may be made payable to the "Northwestern Brain Tumor Institute" to support research www.braintumorinstitute.org, or to the "Cancer Care Support Fund" to assist cancer patients who cannot afford medication.

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Published by Central Cook Suburban Life from Nov. 20 to Nov. 25, 2009.

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Norma Ramsay

October 31, 2011

Dear Connor family,

I am saddened to read Brendan's obituary but it made me pleased to learn of all he had accomplished over the past many years. It was an honor to be able to care for him and to get to know him as well as his family, many years ago in Minnepolis. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Norma Ramsay, Minneapolis

December 5, 2009

To The Family,

I was very sorry to read about your loss. I hope you can find comfort in the words found at Isa. 33:24 which say that soon no one will say 'I am sick.' You have my deepest sympathies.

The Bourke Family

Barbara Manning

November 24, 2009

My sympathy to the Connor family. I have such good memories of the Connor family on Hoyne. Brendan was special to many people. It was good to read of his many accomplishments but I will never forget the impact Brendan made on MP Methodist and Good Samaritan. God bless.

November 22, 2009

Dear Marsda, Roger and Family. Please accept our deepest condolences on the death of your remarkable son Brendan. Our hearts go out to your family. We have such fond memories of wonderful afternoon visits to your house on Hoyne when our children were young. Your home was always filled with books, music and laughter. You raised a fine family of educated and talented young people. God bless you today and always.
The Bradley Family--Byron, Peggy, Julie and Charlie

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