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Herbert A. Becker

Herbert A. Becker, 83, of Albuquerque, passed away peacefully on January 12, 2026. Herb was a lover of life and loved by many. He was born in 1942 in North Dakota and raised on a cattle ranch. After being drafted into the Army and serving overseas, he left for college at UND and eventually to law school in Albuquerque where he met and married Martha "Vicky" Wellito in 1969.

Herb was a great and respected attorney. His career in Indian water rights took his family from coast to coast. He served for over 20 years in the United States Department of Justice: first as Assistant U.S. Attorney in New Mexico and later as Director of the Office of Tribal Justice in Washington, D.C. In his last years of practice, he represented the Jicarilla Apache Nation.

Throughout his life, Herb passionately followed sports, most of all his beloved Bums, the Dodgers. He bopped to jazz, enjoyed fine food and drink, wagered on cards, and loved to travel. He visited 6 continents and as far as one knows, every state in the union.

Herb excelled as a husband, father, grandfather, son, grandson, brother, cousin, nephew, uncle, in-law, mentor, and friend. He lives on in splendid memories.

A Celebration of Life will be held on March 28, 2026 from 12:30-3:30pm. Anyone interested in further information on the celebration can email [email protected]. If you do not receive a timely response, you can text 505-713-2292.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Albuquerque Journal on Mar. 24, 2026.

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Annie Lee

March 30, 2026

I met Herbie (that´s we called him) at UND where we both served on an Honor´s Council. He was kind, gentle, unassuming and brought peaceful discussions to our meetings. We kept in touch over the years and he never changed his love for his family, friends and the totality of life´s possibilities.May his memory be a blessing. Annie Lee

Roxann Thomas

March 29, 2026

Yesterday we celebrated and honored an incredible man. Herb in all his roles to family, co-workers, teacher and friend left us all better and blessed. Soar on Herb! From your friends who fast became family. Love, and God bless, Thomas family.

Brenda Seidel

March 27, 2026

I know that I probably met Herb as a child - he and my mother Mary Jane Seidel (Kraft) were cousins. But my first memory of him is when I was stationed at Kirtland AFB in Albuquerque in the mid-1980´s. He and Vicki, along with Jack and Norlene Becker, were so gracious in helping me out when I had my daughter and then shortly afterward divorced and headed back to ND. I kept in touch with them for several years afterward through yearly Christmas cards. Herb was one of a kind and will be so very missed!

Dave Coulie

March 24, 2026

Sincere condolences to the family from Herb's old handball buddies from the Tom Young days. Herb enjoyed the game and was always fun to have in the mix.
May he rest in peace.

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